OnPointt.com ! I I FORGOT TO MENTION I Cashmere Episode Four

We're back! After a long stay away I have so much to tell you all!
When the ladies and I left you last, we were going someplace for the Fourth of July! Things have definitely changed since then so I am here to give you the low down! After geting back in town, I called Phil. We are in a certain gray area but there is no title. Yes, we finally had sex and he is so good in bed! As for Casey, I was determined to call him for a heart to heart talk. Before I moved on with Phil, I needed to see if Casey and I still had something to hold on to. It's not easy just letting go of someone and I wasn't all that sure I wanted to let Casey go. I called him hoping to see about getting us back on track, and to end all this ol y'know state to state booty call. When the phone picked up, it certainly WASN'T Casey -try Misha!

Seems she was curious about who I was and why I was calling her BOYFRIEND WHOM SHE WAS LIVING WITH! I told her that I was the ex-girlfriend. Told Miss Misha when Casey called me recently he FORGOT TO MENTION he had a live-in girlfriend. She tried to get smart and I disconnected the call. I was so angry when I hung up the phone until I did the Anglea Basset move -not the fire stuff from the all time hit movie WAITING TO EXHALE but I was ranting over and over how foolish I was not to just end things period! An hour later Casey calls saying, Miss Misha was not moving in with him but he FORGOT TO MENTION he was kinda involved.

Kinda involved?

How can you be kinda involved? How in the hell can you be involved? Ughh!!!

Either you are involved or you aren't! I resigned myself from cursing him out. All I could do was hang up the phone. That is all I could do! I quickly called the phone company to change my number. My number will be officially changed within 24 hours. he doesn't have my cell. The next time, it will be on me IF I get weak and call him. That won't happen... um hopefully not! Like Brandy's song, 'Never Say Never'.

TAMERA & KEVIN
Tamera was messing with Kevin when we last left you but after ol girl found out where T lived after following Kevin one night -things cooled off! Instead of getting in her man's grill, Kevin's girl knocked out ALL of Tamera's car windows! That did it for Tamera! Being a flight attendant and never knowing if her job is going to call her in last minute, she was not about to have someone mess with her transportation. Kevin paid for the cleaning and replacement of the windows on T's BMW and promptly paid part of her expenses as she moved downtown to the very trendy First Ward Place in uptown Charlotte. After Kevin got Tamera settled in, he had no place to stay cause girlfriend put him out. Rightfully so, he's a cheater. That's what's up!

Kevin asked T could he stay with her until he found a place. Well Tamera did not want to leave him in the situation he was in. She took Kevin in and laid down the rules. TAMERA RULES! Kevin had thirty days to stay since he was an engineer at AT&T - he could find and afford a place of his own with ease. Most importantly, it would be beneficial to get some regular sex now instead of select days like before. Kevin promised to give something on the bills, and make her new place drama free from the crazy ex. Everything was a done deal except Miss Tamera had Freda to get her boss (lawyer) to draw up some papers for Kevin thinking he would have taken it well.

"I FORGOT TO MENTION you need to sign these papers." Tamera said to Kevin. Kevin looked at the legal documents saying leave in thirty days. Ol Kev promptly cursed Tamera out, leaving that very night, staying at one of his frat brothers. "Damn!" Tamera said to us over brunch, "I should have presented the papers to him if he DIDN'T leave at the end of the month!

Now I lost two full weeks of good sex!

Kevin never called Tamera again.

FREDA
Freda had some moving to do also! After dodging Dave and his crazy ways, they finally had the talk she dreaded. It was August and her husband Jerome would be home out of the military for good in January. Freda had to call it quits with Dave immediately. Dave was not happy at all he was furious! He cried (yes he did) and became furious again! All the while Freda was dying inside because she really cared for Dave. It had been over 10 months of being with him, which was more time spent with him than her husband Jerome. Still Freda held to her word, she was going to give it a try with her husband. They had been with each other for what seemed like a lifetime. That was something to hold on to. Freda did love Jerome. Now she would have to get to know Jerome more when her returned to the states. They would have to get to know one another. Dave kept calling weekly and then one day he just stopped after Freda yelled hysterically to him, "DID I FORGET TO MENTION TO YOU I WAS MARRIED?!" Call it tough love, but it had to end! Freda hired a local moving company to come move her out of her current place of residence. She moved across town with no reminders of Dave. Freda moved to the Ritzy Post Park at Phillips Place. She began to use one of her extra job benefits. Freda started seeing a therapist to help get things in order. We asked was it a man therapist and she said no (Whew!), it was a woman therapist. At least Freda was on the right track.

NICOLE
Nicole is dating this all together man, named Hensley. He is 43 years old, just the older age Nic likes. He lives out in Lake Norman where she does,except brother man has a nice home, not an apartment, complete with the latest Jaguar and a Tahoe. Henlsey is raising twin boys ages 15. The mother left when the boys were 10 for the single life and divorced Hensley three years ago. Yes-Hensley is a divorcee but he has many qualities Nicole likes. They haven't had sex yet but when he goes over to NIcole's place they do alot of foreplay. After a month of dating, Nicole hasn't officially met the boys but she talks to them by phone when she calls.

One night after a great dinner at Pewter Rose Bistro, Hensley received a phone call on his cell phone. "Hello?" "You are where?" "Now?!" After a deep sigh he talked again. "No it's alright, give me a few minutes. He said to the person on the phone. "Wh-Who was that?" Nicole asked seeing Hensely was troubled. "That was my ex-wife Crystal, she's at the airport." "She told me she had our sons on her mind heavily so she had to see them." "She just got on a plane from Washington DC and came here?" Nicole asked Hensley increduously. "Yes and I have to pick her up." "This is an awkward situation." Hensley said to Nicole. "So where is she um staying?" Nicole asekd sounding concerned more than questioning-like. This was not sounding good.

I FORGOT TO MENTION, she stays with me when she visits, guest room of course." Hensley said to Nicole looking directly at the highway proceeding to put his hand on Nic's thigh to rub it. "Well tell you what, we are right downtown, drop me off at my girlfriend Farra's place and handle your business." Nicole said calmly, removing Hensley's hands from her thighs. "You can go with me baby, I have nothing to hide." Hensley said nervously. I FORGOT TO MENTION, I DON'T DO THE BABY MAMA DRAMA, EX-WIFE DRAMA, STAYING WITH YOU WHEN SHE COMES TO TOWN DRAMA!" Nicole said and that was all she said until he dropped her over to my place. Hensley leaned over to kiss Nicole and for whatever it was worth, Nicole kissed him leaving a good trace of lipstick on the collar. There! Try mentioning lipstick evidence to Crystal! Nicole stayed the night with me. We had a good time talking about the hilarious drama that has unfolded between the two BIG BOZOS in our lives.

VALERIE
Valerie and Monte spent their holidays with thier friends. She did not go home for the holidays and it was a great move! 'A' showed up at the family reunion and most of Valerie's family was furious at him because their favorite girl was not there. Valerie's mom stepped up to 'A' and told him, he was not welcomed back into their home. Dad didn't say a word. It was not worth her daughter missing her OWN family reunion. 'A' promptly left and all was somewhat well with the holidays. Back at the mansion on LAKE WYLIE Valerie and Monte were in the middle of making love when the doorbell rung. It was one of Monte's business associates by the name of Julia. She always made it a habit, a bad habit of coming over unannounced talking about work as she twirled her blonde hair barely acknowledging the Lady Of The Mansion, Val, the American-Italian man's black beautiful wife. Well it was routine as usual. Monte was very tolerant and proceeded to listen to what Julia had to say about stuff that could wait until after the weekend. As Valerie made her way down the staircase, Julia looked up and then proceeded to look away back at Monte signing the papers.

"Excuse me, but the least you could do is say hello in my house. You disturbed a very special time!" Valerie said having enough of the disrespect. "Oh... oh my I did not see you, I am so sorry Val." "Was I disturbing you Monte?" Julia asked Monte sounding so pitiful. Monte looked at Julia and spoke. "I was making love to my beautiful wife Valerie and yes you disturbed us." "From now on you do not have to come by our home anymore with work related issues. If it is extremely important, please call first." I FORGOT TO MENTION my partner Lew will be handling your account from now on." Monte said in a pleasant tone. "Sure, sorry for everything." Valerie, Monte... goodnight." Julia made her way to the door, leaving without a backwards glance! Not even out of earshot, Valerie and Monte bursted out laughing. Without going back upstairs, Monte made love to Valerie on the winding staircase.

Well that pretty much tells what we all have been doing besides working and staying positive as we can. I'm about to get some much needed rest, because I have a book deal that is in the final stages. I have to be in Virginia for three days, so I really and truly must look my very best. This trip, I 'm actually looking forward to because Phil is going with me. Yep! Yep! After the wake up call from Casey, it was time to move on. I had no idea what Nicole was going to do, but she could handle anything that came her way. I at least like to think so because we all can be fragile. Yep! Yep! This will be our first out of state trip. We're renting an Expedition, staying at this cute Bed and Breakfast, courtesy of my client, how cool!

FARRA'S COMMENTS:

LIFE HAS IT'S TWIST AND TURNS BUT YOU ROLL RIGHT WITH IT! I HAVE NO DOUBTS THAT FREDA WILL WORK THROUGH ALL THAT SHE HAS TO WORK THROUGH. VALERIE SEEMS TO BE AWAY FROM THE TURMOILS OF 'A' FOR NOW. THAT DEVIL WILL REAR HIS UGLY HEAD ONCE MORE I FEEL. CASEY'S LITTLE 'I FORGOT TO MENTION' GAVE ME THE WAKE UP CALL I NEEDED. ONCE YOU GO DOWN THAT ROAD OF DISRESPECT AS A COUPLE, IT IS HARD TO JUST GO BACK -EVEN IF IT IS FOR THE BOOTY CALL. WHAT PRICE DO YOU PAY? NICOLE HAS SOME QUESTIONS FOR HENSELY. HOPEFULLY HENSLEY WILL HAVE THE RIGHT ANSWERS.

JUST WHAT IS UP WITH HIS EX-WIFE CRYSTAL? AS FOR TAMERA, NO PAIN, NO GAIN. ON TO THE NEXT MAN AND THAT IS A PERSON IN A SELF-LOVE STATE OF MIND. SO I'M GOING WITH THE FLOW AND SEE HOW THINGS GO WITH PHIL. WE'RE IN THE GRAY AREA Y'KNOW. THE NEXT TIME SOMEONE SAYS 'I FORGOT TO MENTION', just brace yourself for some unexpected stuff and keep the cool.

Until next time,

I'm Farra saying peace, love and come back for more love from Cashmere!